Today was a beautiful day, one we don’t expect in this part of the country in January. We reached a high of 66F today, the snow has mostly melted, and I took the day to wander around to see what was now visible.
The temperatures are already falling tonight and by morning we are expecting a high of 32F and snow. It reminded me of a post I wrote last year at this time and thought it was time to share it as it was only seen by 1 or 2 people. I’ve changed the photos to show you what things looked like today, before winter returns. And added a bonus for you at the end, it’s a little gem just waiting to fill a dream.
“The longer I live the more beautiful life becomes” Frank Lloyd Wright
With newly fallen snow today my first reaction was to groan. I have been spoiled this winter by a near absence of the white blankets I have grown accustomed to in this part of the country. My next thought was to wonder if my three year old granddaughter was happy to see the freshly fallen snow.
As an adult I, like many others, tend to view the changes in weather as a barometer of how the day will feel. Personally, a day of non-stop pouring rain, or a blizzard is only soothing or beautiful to me if I can stay indoors that day. In the case of rain, my favorite way of falling asleep is to listen to a thunderstorm, yet I want the daytime hours to be those that will not inconvenience the things I want to get done.
Learning from children
A child doesn’t see the world this way, at least till we teach him to. My grand daughter sees each day as a new experience to be lived fully in that moment. In the summer months, she can go to the playground, pick her flowers, visit the waterways to see the fish, go to the zoo. In the fall, there are pumpkins, fall flowers, fallen leaves, opportunities to wear the new warmer clothes that were just bought.
But it’s winter that makes me smile when viewed through her eyes. The pride in her new winter coat and boots. The curiosity when confronted with static in her hair from her winter hat. The twinkle in her eyes when she sees the newly fallen snow. The fresh snow means she can go outside to make snowballs, but most of all it’s her opportunity to give a gift to those she loves.
The first time she saw snow this winter, her first reaction was to eat it. Since then, her parents have taught her the difference between clean and dirty snow, explaining dirty snow can make her sick. When she finds freshly fallen snow, as much as she loves to eat it she believes everyone else does too.
When she comes to visit, I am greeted at my door with a smile and a handful of snow. I am told that this is for me, a present. The pride she shows at being able to give another a gift she believes they will love is a gift in itself, like no other.
Changing my perception
So this morning, I chose to be happy with our new snow fall for my grand daughter and all the other children who show us that no day should be judged by the weather. The weather can give us a new opportunity to evaluate our day in a new way. Be young and let each season be a time of wonder.
Now for the gem
Have you ever thought about what your dream home would look like, or where it would be? I have. I have always wanted a small cabin or cottage away from a busy street and along water. I could see myself getting up each morning, weather permitting, to head out to my kayak for a morning ride, just to get the juices flowing and hold the serenity with me through a day at work.
What does your dream look like? If it includes water near town maybe you would enjoy this.
This piece of land is only half a block from the center of town, but on a side street away from the traffic.
Of course what is lakefront property without your own boat dock?
If you don’t know what your dreams are, you may miss it when you see it. I’ve heard, and believe, that our dreams tell us what our heart longs for. So what do you long for?
Another beautiful post that reminds me to be in awe of the gift of life. I love the gift your grand-daughter loves to give you. So sweet! Thanks for sharing. 🙂
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Thanks, I’m not always so thrilled with the gift of snow, I hate cold anything to eat or drink in the winter months, but I eat enough of it to make her happy then tell her I want to share with her. She gladly finishes it.:-)
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Lovely post !!
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You put winter and not so great weather in perspective by looking at it through a child’s eyes.
My dream is to have a home that has one big room undivided with a kitchen, dining area, and big living area with a fireplace and a television banned from the first floor. There would be gatherings and food and fun and games and conversation and no television. There would be music. There would be a powder room for guests and big windows overlooking a body of water that is not too close to flood. Walls would have shelves upon shelves for my books and important mementos. People would not track mud in on my floors. Unlike you–I live in a crowded space right now, which has served us well–but I would like some big spaces, not necessarily a big house. This is my dream. My dream is much bigger than this–but this is one small element of it.
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I love your dream, especially the open concept. I’ve lived in a couple open concept homes and loved them. It makes a space look larger without the walls and we can all be doing something different yet be connected. The property I shared yesterday is on a slight incline from the lake and that area doesn’t flood so it would be the perfect spot, plenty large enough for a larger home. As a matter of fact, I am sure the zoning there would be for a larger home than what I would ever want. I hope you get your dream home one say soon, just knowing what it is will help you if you really want to find it.
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and a lottery win would go far in helping-
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Can only happen if you actually play the lottery:-)
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I do on occasion but never spend much–gives my husband happy dreams which he needs as this lawsuit we are involved in drives him crazy
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Addendum – I might have a tv in the kitchen for those times when I have to cook–to take my mind off cooking – ha ha.
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Okay, as long as it’s a small one 🙂
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ha ha
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Lovely post, Lois. Even though you only have one picture, I can see how your granddaughter has grown over the past year.
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Thank you, yes she has grown quite a bit. I purchased clothing for her to have here for those days she needs a clean outfit in late fall, she’s already too tall for most of them!
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“If you don’t know what your dreams are, you may miss it when you see it.”
This line just gave me chills! Now I have to figure out what my dreams are. 🙂
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Yes, but you are still young enough to find them and not feel that you missed out. I knew what kind of home I wanted to live in and where, but it took me until 49 to find it, hopefully you will find yours sooner.
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It’s all about the journey 🙂
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Great post. Once again, perspective and attitude determine everything.
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It sure does. I just went outside where it’s snowing and cold, I know my grand children will be arriving soon for a short visit and rather than being unhappy that my spring-like days are behind me, I smiled and wondered how excited they will be. Made bearing the cold better.
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I am always expecting the weather to cooperate with what I want to do!
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Me too. I would love for it to check with me first and set up a schedule I can live with. Alas I don’t see that happening any time soon.
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A beautiful post Lois and lovely and cool to look at. It’s going to be 102 F in Melbourne tomorrow so I am soaking up
your chilly pictures. I have too many dream places to live to share, but I am usually happy here. 🙂
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Oh how I would love even a day of your temperatures to feel the warmth soak into my cold bones. I half-jokingly tell people I wish I were a bear, then I could hibernate all winter and wake to the three seasons I truly love.
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No chance of melting snow here! Interesting picture..
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Sorry to hear that, while temps have dropped the snow they called for hasn’t re-appeared.
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